What's happening Losers?
In this long overdue discussion, I'm going to tell you what I have personally done to get motivated to hit the gym.
We'll discuss both the orthodox and the not-so-orthodox methods in our 3-part series on "Gym Motivation".
These suggestions should get the ball rolling so you can get on auto-pilot and not really need them anymore.
I'm first going to discuss and comment on some mainstream approaches to gym motivation and tell you how to make those even better. Then I'll cover some more outside-the-box suggestions in Part II and III.
This topic "How to Get Motivated to Go to the Gym," isn't an obscure one.
We see the same generic mainstream suggestions over-and-over (make it fun!, just motivate yourself!, etc.).
It's not that the usual suggestions are "wrong" or "bad" - but they are usually a bit incomplete since they usually aren't written by former insecure meatheads - such as myself - that dedicated thousands of hours to the gym and the lifestyle.
I spent ~16 months as a personal trainer in Los Angeles (largely in Beverly Hills) where I came to see that my job was more of a 'therapist' or 'friend' than personal trainer. There were numerous days that I got paid hundreds of dollars and I did nothing but go to lunch with my client. Sometimes I got a free sandwich from Whole Foods too.
More importantly - I have over a decade of experience of hitting the gym on a regular basis, both as a natural trainee and a juicehead.
Last year, however, I wasn't as motivated and only went to the gym about 30 times (down from my previous average of about 180-200 or ~4 days a week).
So maybe I can get something from this too.
Orthodox Ways to Get Motivated for the Gym
#1 Get a Personal Trainer or a Dedicated Friend
This seems to be the #1 suggestion among mainstream publications. It works well too.
Some people think that hiring a personal trainer is a "scam" because he won't actually teach you anything that you can't learn on the Internet. While this might be true, the same can be said about any college professor or anyone that has written a non-fiction book. Hiring a personal trainer is almost entirely a motivation move - and a good one at that - if you have the money.
Make sure to pick a trainer that ALREADY HAS the body type you want. In general, private personal trainers (Google them) are exponentially better than the trainers in the uniform black shirts at public gym such as Gold's or Equinox.
Finding a dedicated friend, however, isn't as easy.
I've only had 1 full-time training partner in my life. I got lucky. He was the eventual Mr. Tampa and I have never been around someone who cared so much about building the perfect [bodybuilder] body.
In 2005, when I was in Southern California playing inline hockey, I joined a University of Florida Facebook group called "I Can Bench 400lbs". He was the group ADMIN and we just started talking. We trained together for over 2 years and I learned a lot from Mr. Tampa. It was a great situation; he would come over to my apartment and pick me up every time, train until we couldn't move and we'd eat ridiculously high amounts of calories after our 2 hour workouts. Fun times.
Most people aren't so lucky (or dedicated).
For the first few weeks, new training partners are usually beneficial.
Things can quickly become counter-productive however - waiting for the other person to show up, uncertain if he is going to train that day, on vs. off days.
I don't suggest this one unless you can find someone who is MORE DEDICATED than you.
#2 Start Small and Schedule Easy, Doable Workouts
I like this one.
The worst thing you can do is give someone who hates the gym a 2 hour professional bodybuilder workout from Muscle & Fitness magazine. No "Rocky Mentality". That will lead to burnout.
I say - go for 25 minutes in the first week.
Yup, just 25 minutes.
Every other day, or just Monday-Wednesday-Friday.
Chances are - you'll be motivated to stay for more time.
Also, it's important that you focus on WORKING OUT HARD.
The smaller the window of time - the more you naturally push yourself. Go hard for 25 minutes.
The psychology of getting people in shape is similar to getting guys over their approach anxiety - baby steps toward attainable goals.
Increase the planned gym time by 5 minutes - every 15 days.
#3 Go to the Gym in the Morning aka "Get It Over With"
If you are following our weight loss diet, you SHOULD BE working out in the morning on an empty stomach since it burns 300% more fat than training in a fed state.
There's other advantages to training in the morning -
- Testosterone levels are highest in the morning (Boston University)
- Morning exercise keeps testosterone higher through the day
- Morning exercise will reduce high blood pressure according (Appalachian State University)
- Morning exercise will increase your metabolic rate (metabolism) (Columbia University)
- Morning exercise will reduce mass food cravings later in the day (BYU)
The major advantage for the less motivated is that YOU ARE DONE before you start your day.
You don't have to think, "Do I have enough energy..." "How am I going to do this workout later today..." "I hate going to a packed gym..." for the rest of the day.
You are DONE.
It's worth it.
Every college football and college hockey program does their strength/resistance training first thing in the morning. Most programs train super hard for 40 minutes and it's over with. It builds discipline and keeps them leaner than if they trained in the afternoon.
If you are a regular smoker - you need to be training in the morning. It helps force your lungs into action and has a positive effect on dopamine levels that are used to being stimulated by nicotine first thing in the morning.
#4 Just Get to the Gym
Another solid suggestion.
The hardest part is often just simply getting to the gym.
If you can accomplish that - the actual working out seems to come naturally.
Once you get to the gym - you'll probably force yourself through at least some of your workout. And Every little bit counts.
Take suggestion #2 and you should be able to finish a 25 minute workout.
It's rare that a person will drive to the gym and then walk out without doing a little something.
Even if you unenthusiastically have to 'go through the motions' - just get in there.
Even if it's for just 15 minutes.
#5 Have Goals
(Have 1 Very Specific Attainable Goal)
This suggestion is part of just about every mainstream 'gym motivation' article.
The problem is - the author rarely addresses how to structure these goals.
You need ONE SPECIFIC GOAL that includes TWO before/after specific quantitative figures and a specific deadline no longer than 14 weeks.
Drop from ~17% bodyfat to 7% bodyfat by April 20th.
(this is my current goal)
I suggest adding at least 14 days to however long you think it's going to take - this ensures that is it attainable.
Goal revised (+14 Days)-
Drop from ~17% bodyfat to 7% bodyfat by May 4th.
Notice that my goal DOES NOT include weight, strength, measurements, etc.
Setting weight, strength, measurement, etc. goals makes it TWO GOALS.
You can use those as the measuring stick (rather than bodyfat %) but HAVE ONE GOAL.
If you are REALLY struggling then here is your goal-
"Go to the gym for 20 minutes today..."
Once you have that down, then set a specific quantitative fitness goal with a specific deadline.
#6 Try Something New at the Gym
Most gyms have various classes that you can sign up for - they are usually free aka part of your membership. Yoga, Zumba, Pilates, Crossfit, etc.
Higher-end health clubs have an array of cardiovascular equipment, swimming, boxing, kettlebells, racquetball, rock climbing and basketball courts.
If hitting the weights is getting boring - pick something else to do in addition to (or in lieu) of the weights.
Even if Yoga, Zumba, Pilates classes seem "gay" - the main goal for the unmotivated is to GET TO THE GYM.
If you do 20 minutes of some silly class and then hit the weights for 20 minutes - consider it a win.
I've been playing basketball on the regular at the gym, I'm excited to do so and it makes the gym trip easier.
I hit the weights for 20-25 minutes and then I play basketball, which is more exciting to me these days.
(the diet [that keeps blood sugar nearly completely stable] does the fat burning)
If you aren't down with the classes - just change up your workout. Incorporating just ONE new exercise can make things more fun.
Even if going to the stream room or sauna is your only motivation to hit the gym - it's better than not going.
#7 Carry a Motivational Picture With You
This was a common mainstream suggestion. I was surprised - it's not a bad idea.
Carry a picture that looks like the body you want to have (or a hot girl that is in shape).
Look at it every 10 minutes if you have to - just get your work done.
I've never done this, but I've put motivational videos and images of athletes on my iPod - which is basically the same thing.
#8 Schedule Your Gym Visits Around TV Times (Cardio)
This is a suggestion for those that do cardiovascular training.
I don't expect this to be anything a committed guy should even consider.
If there is something on TV that you want to watch (or just something that will easily pass the time) then visit the gym around that time.
I don't really watch any TV but I'll happily watch Mike & Mike on ESPN if it's on. I'll make a point to hit the gym between 4am and 8pm when the show is on.
Responsible planners will get to the gym 30-40 minutes before their TV shows, hit the weights and then hit the cardio to watch their show/distraction.
#9 Take Before/After, Weekly Progress Pictures
I've actually started doing this when I was 17 or 18 years old.
I also did it here-
It's good to track progress and motivate.
It's even better to build accountability.
I won't let a week go by where I'm not at least slightly better than the week before.
Post them online if you want to be even more accountable.
(it's not arrogant if you are fat to start with)
Don't expect a friendly/any reaction from guys that are out of shape - get used to it.
Pictures at age 19-
#10 Stock the Fridge With Healthful Food That You Have To Eat
(throw out the processed snacks and sugar-laden garbage foods)
This is a 2-part suggestion.
I suggest, usually on a Sunday, that you buy all the healthful food you have to eat for the week.
Just get it into your fridge.
You are going to have to eat it - or else it will go bad and be a waste of money.
At the same time, throw out any and all processed food, garbage snacks, candy and whatever crap that doesn't belong in your fridge or your body.
You might think, "damn this is a waste of money..." or "maybe I should keep it, just in case I'm hungry..."
No - throw it out.
(if you are really against this - find a local charity or homeless man and donate the food)
Yeah it was a waste of money. It was a stupid decision to buy it in the first place.
Feeling that you wasted money on something is a good way to refrain from purchasing it again.
These 2 steps ensure that the only food in your house is the food you should be eating.
#11 Start a Fitness & Nutrition Log
(Ideally an Online Journal)
Although I’m not a huge fan of keeping a journal – I’m less of a fan of inconsistency and a lack of accountability.
Keeping an online journal (approximately or less than 200 words a day) of what you ate and what you did in the gym is undeniably helpful for guys that lack motivation.
I did this when I was in my early 20’s. In fact, here is a journal of my very first cycle I ever did.
Logging what you did in the gym and ate is helpful but you might want to consider staying 1 day ahead and writing EXACTLY what you are going to do.
Members of the Good Looking Loser ‘Get Ripped’ Forum are very supportive and you will receive quality answers to your questions – often in less than an hour.
Big gaps in journal entries can be embarrassing and you will naturally feel more accountable for your training and diet if you have a training log.
If you want to go the extra mile – post WEEKLY pictures too.
This only improves your chances for absolute victory.
#12 Don’t Get Down On Yourself If You Slip Up
(Just Fix It)
Not to suggest that fitness and nutrition and drug rehabilitation are similar – both are undeniably part of an overall lifestyle.
Chances are – YOU WILL MISS A DAY.
You will probably miss 3 in a row at some point.
YOU WILL HAVE WEAK MOMENTS.
These are simply challenges – not failures.
Quitting is the only failure.
Unlike some things in life - it is inevitable that you reach your fitness goal if you keep trying.
The key is to not go on an unhealthy binge for more than 24 hours.
Learn to persevere rather than indulge.
#13 Drink Enough Water
At least 1 gallon a day. Coffee, diet soda, tea and BCAA’s (while critical for preserving muscle) DO NOT count as water.
Drink real water.
As a rule of thumb – make sure your urine is nearly clear ALL DAY LONG.
That includes when you pee in the morning.
Taking a B-Vitamin complex (or our recommended multivitamin) will turn your pee a neon yellow.
Just know the difference.
#14 Get Enough Sleep
8 hours or more.
Perhaps obvious - this is one of the most important suggestions.
A lot of guys that aren’t motivated or can’t get to the gym are simply suffering from sleep deprivation or adrenal fatigue.
When this becomes a habit – it kills your testosterone levels and human growth hormone production.
Sleep is the most crucial aspect of overall recovery and one of the most crucial to changing your body composition.
Thus ends the list of 'Orthodox Suggestions'.
Perhaps you have already considered or already practice most of these - but let this serve as a reminder of small measures that can make a big difference.
Next round we will talk some about some Unorthodox Suggestions - suggestions that will be less obvious and more controversial.
For further suggestions, exclusive to the Good Looking Loser Fat Loss Diet, check out this post-
Part II of this article is continued here-