What Your Clothing Says About You
(Fashion Reflects Status)

Love it or hate it, fair or unfair and whether you believe it or not -

First impressions are extremely important and your clothing says a lot about you. 

This is hardly a new thing or a superficial "American" thing.

It been true for thousands of years. Noble classes in Europe used to forbid lower classes from where any attire to suggest they had anything going for them.

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A friend that visited me in Los Angeles about a year ago said something pretty observant.

He noticed and remarked that -

Everyone [in Los Angeles] dresses like they are somebody.

It’s true for the most part.

In any other city, this ‘look’ might stand out. But in Los Angeles he’s just another person.

People in Los Angeles, especially Hollywood, dress like they are pretty important people. If you are visiting Hollywood or West Hollywood you’ll think everyone is a celebrity. You don’t know who is truly high-status or just a Good Looking Loser playing dress up.

We’ll talk about the styles and looks another time.

It’s something that I don’t really notice anymore. I’ve gotten used to it and I dress with the same type of thing in mind. People think I’m “that actor,” “that MMA guy,” or that “football player,” I’m neither, as you know- I’m just a loser.

In fact, it’s the undersexed guy with a buttoned up stiff polo shirt that doesn’t fit him that stands out. It’s the guy in the 2001 Abercrombie High School “Lifeguard” t-shirt that you notice. I don’t mean in a good way.

Unlike any other city I’ve lived in, including New York City, there’s a distinct visual separation between the “cool kids” and the “not-so-cool kids,” I can basically look someone and tell where he stands in the social hierarchy and if he’s hooks up with hot women. So can women.

This separation becomes completely apparent in situations of social competition. Nightclubs especially.

I can tell which guys are visiting from different cities and will be going back to their hotel alone. I can tell which guys came with hot girls and will fuck them at the after-party that night. It’s completely obvious and don’t even wear my contacts out.

Although this silly little dress up game might seem superficial and dumb, it-is-what-it-is.

There’s a lot of things at work here.

Let me talk about some of the more important aspects.

Questions and comments on the original “Dress Like You Are a Somebody, Not a Nobody” can be foundhere.

You Judge People, They Judge You

No matter how “non-judgmental” and compassionate someone says they are, they judge EVERYONE they see in a given day by the clothing they wear and their overall presentation.

In fact- we can’t help it.

Your mind naturally does this to keep you away from dangerous situations. A safety mechanism, similar tothe fight-or-flight syndrome.

Carlton Banks knows how to get back to the suburbs.

If you need directions, you are going to ask the black guy who looks like he graduated from Princeton or the black guy who looks like he is a Pirus Family gang member?

The only reason I bring up ‘race’ is because it has nothing to do with it.

To a less obvious degree, the same judgmental thought patterns that protect you from danger also establish a social hierarchy in nearly every social situation, especially in the ones where people don’t know each other.

Everyone generally knows where they stand on the social ladder.

The non-celebrity hierarchy (status) is usually as follows-

• The top 10% girls – good looking / look good, sex appeal, dressed sexy
• The top 10% guys – good looking / look good, sex appeal, dressed cool
• The average girls – less good looking / not looking as good, average sex appeal, dressed plain
• The average guys – less good looking / not looking as good, average sex appeal, dressed to fit in
• The bottom 10% girls – usually overweight, can’t dress well (or combination of the both)
• The bottom 10% guys – no sex appeal

Perception is reality.

Especially when it comes to people you don’t know and people who don’t know you.

Perception is reality: Can he satisfy a woman? She doesn’t think so either.

If you aren’t perceived as a top 10% of guy in a given social situation, there’s basically no chance that you’ll pull top 10% pussy from that situation.

Social circles and relationships offer some exceptions.

You might have heard the statement that, “women want [to fuck] a guy on their level, or above them,” it’s actually true. Double your Dating got it right!

Women are only attracted to the top 10% of guys. Others may settle for “safer” guys outside the top 10%, but they aren’t necessarily that attracted to them, it’s more of an investment. Men, on the other hand, are attracted to way higher percentage of women.

The best way to join that top 10% is to dress like you are part of the top 10%.

Guys in the top 10% dress- Sexy and Cool. Usually in that order.

If you don’t dress like you are sexy and cool, women won’t believe it.

I won’t believe it.

Frankly- you won’t believe it.

I dress like this for a number of reasons

Why Hot Girls Love to Dress Up

This is important to understand.

When I learned about it, my entire understanding of fashion grew.

Whether it’s intentional or not, girls filter out losers by dressing up and looking hot. It’s not just to hide their imperfections. It’s a screening thing.

Women dress for social status and the love being the hottest girls in the room. They love subtlety intimidating desperate men and equally love making other girls jealous of them.

Maybe it seems totally superficial, but it-is-what-it-is.

Even the nice ones like to politely remind the average guys that “you aren’t their level, don’t waste my time.”

Hollywood is the extreme of that.

Some bitter guys like to argue that- “any girl who likes that isn’t a quality woman.”

I disagree.

I don’t know one super hot girl that doesn’t embrace her sexual power and doesn’t want to be considered a top-shelf girl. I don’t know one hot girl that doesn’t like dressing up and feeling sexy. The attention, while sometimes superficial (and validation seeking), makes them feel sexy and powerful. When they feel sexy and powerful they feel feminine. When they feel feminine they get wet.

When I was getting ~3 girls back a week, this is basically what I wore. Slightly above average looks, style was considered cool though.

Lets look at our gender for comparison- I don’t know a [straight] guy that doesn’t like to feel powerful and masculine. Do you? It’s the same thing and there’s no reason to hold a double-standard.

When I was mainly doing girls from my clubbing circles, some of the girls would literally orgasm when I touched them on the way back to my place/after-party. They’d explain that they felt “so hot” the whole night. I actually realized what they meant. Some ridiculously sexy high-status Greek girl (Lauren) explained a fantasy in great detail to me in 2009. Basically her fantasy was to go out dance, have guys buy her drinks, touch herself in the bathroom throughout and fucked later that night by the guy she came with. Nothing special.

So, if you didn’t understand- that’s what it is.

It-is-what-it-is.

Don’t be ignorant of it, play it to your advantage and don’t dress like you are the average not-sexually-active guy because you’ll get treated like one. Even I would, I’ve tried.

Perception is reality. Dress like you are part of the “cool kids,” even if you don’t like them.

Dress like you are somebody.

You Don’t Need Permission

My friend also commented that he thought that “non-famous people dressing like they were SOMEBODY,” was “ridiculous.”

I was actually surprised to hear this, my friend dresses “well,” works for MTV and has a lot more friends than the average guy.

Ridiculous?

I jumped all over that, after all- I dress like I’m somebody. I let people know that I’m not the average guy and I won’t be treated like one.

My friend said that I was a different story, I was allowed to do so [to some extent]. I had the world’s permission.

Well, I never got anything in the mail that said “Chris, you are allowed to dress like ____,” at least I didn’t see anything. Perhaps my somewhat edgy look (formerly jacked up steroid monkey) fit better with certain clothes/styles… but I gave myself permission.

Back in 2005, when I was getting absolutely no pussy, my clothes and style were completely different. I was completely different.

You don’t need permission, in fact- you probably won’t get it if you chill with guys that aren’t part of the top 10% club.

We all play this social status game, whether we admit it or not. So you might as well win, rather than pretend you don’t care or it doesn’t exist. No one says it’s “just a game” when are they are winning.

Join the club, lots of soda and pussy.

Unfortunately, most of your friends won’t want you to have a better sex life, look cooler or get more attention than they. Girls are that way with each other too. If your friends get a lot of pussy and are emotionally healthy, they might be in favor of you potentially being cooler or sexier than they… but maybe not.

Give yourself permission. Go look cool, go join the top-tier men if you haven’t already.

Getting pussy will be way easier.

If you can’t- I give you permission.

Go. 

Tommy Lee is “sexy,” because is he considered to be cool, he’s not necessarily good looking.

Good Looking vs. Looking Good

You may have noticed that there were 2 characteristics that were among the top 10%.

Good looking.

Look good.

Both have sex appeal. Both are cool. Both are “hot.”

Basically, try to be as good looking as you can be. Get down to 6% body fat, have a little bit of muscle mass, that will MAX out your facial features and jawline.

But even if you aren’t naturally good looking, you can still look cool and this can actually have nearly as much positive effect on how women perceive you. Cool guys get laid. Guys that get laid are cool. Dress to stand out, not to fit in. Dress like you are someone, preferably- someone with edge who gets laid.

A lot of girls in the top 10% (on any given night) aren’t have naturally pretty. They just know how to style themselves and get the hair extensions and makeup nearly perfect. I run into a lot of peroxide blondes that have their breasts spilling out of their clothes. I tell them to stand still and look at me so I can see whats up. oink oink

I’ll have to discuss this one more later. I think you get the idea though.

Conclusion

There’s more to style and fashion than I could possibly cover in this post. This basic discussion was LONG OVERDUE. Because we haven’t officially covered it might suggest that it’s less important than your looks and social freedom. It’s not. It’s equally as important, especially if you want to pull top-shelf pussy.

In Los Angeles, in certain scenarios, I actually think style can be more important than social freedom (balls). You know I consider social freedom- BY FAR the #1 element of getting regular pussy. We’ll cover more of this in the coming months.